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5th Grade Altar Servers with Fr. Bill

I wasn't planning to blog during Easter weekend because there are more important things to do during this weekend, especially to go to church and spend time with family. Between attending services at St. Ann and St. Michael and being with my family, it was a pretty full and wonderful weekend. But, I decided to take part of today to write a blog for this week. I'll take another week off some other time.

I will begin with a realization that struck me

Empty Tabernacle on Holy Thursday

like a jolt when Fr. Ernie left the tabernacle empty at the end of the Holy Thursday Mass. I was actually moved and saddened seeing the empty tabernacle. That's when I realized that when the tabernacle is empty, the tomb is not, and vice-versa; full tabernacle equals an empty tomb. I know for most people it is probably a "duh, of course it is" moment. For me, it was a very moving epiphany. If I got nothing else out of Easter this year, that realization is enough for me in appreciating even more Jesus's sacrifice for us all. Without the resurrection, Christianity would not exist. An empty tabernacle means no resurrection.

That's why the chief priests and elders "gave a large sum of money to the soldiers" to say that "His disciples came by night and stole him while we were asleep." This is from today's Gospel reading. (Matthew 28:8-15) If they convinced everyone that the resurrection did not take place, then there would be no risen Lord.

As for this blog, you might think that the title of this blog, Happy :), is for Happy Easter. I guess it could be since this is the most important day for all of Christendom. So, I do wish everyone a Happy Easter, and that all of you spent time in prayer giving thanks for the resurrection.

As for the title, it is for another Happy. So, I have an assignment for St. Ann families. Actually, this assignment is for anyone reading this blog. When you are looking for something to do as a family, please take the time to watch the  documentary Happy by Roko Belic on Netflix. The reason I suggest watching Happy as a family is because it is a documentary and some of the younger family members might need just a little explaining about what some of the researchers are saying about happiness. In this fast-paced, self-centered, negative leaning, materialistic world of instant gratification we live in; we many times forget the importance of happiness, compassion, caring, gratitude, love, appreciation, while thinking of things bigger than ourselves, and making the world a better place.

This documentary shows the happiest and least happiest people on earth. The producers/researchers of this documentary traveled the globe to learn more about happiness. We could all use a big dose of happiness and a lot less drama and unhappiness. It is easy to get caught up in a world of negativity. In my family, we call it negativitude. This just means having a negative attitude. Need to replace it with lots and lots of positivitude. Or as Jason Mraz says in his song Have It All, "May the best of your todays be the worst of your tomorrows." Happy is definitely worth watching. If you need some happiness, this might just be the kick start you need. It was a great reminder to me to focus more energy to just be happy.

I was able to spend half of Holy Thursday and all of Good Friday at St. Ann all by myself trying my best to make the school better for next year. We are up to date on teacher contracts for the 2019-20 school year. Still have a few more hires to make because we are growing. I have also completed a big chunk of the budget for next year. There are a few things to add but not many.

With the improvements we have made, people recognize the changes being made to make our school a better place for our students. And, these folks believe in our mission and the work we are doing so they are entrusting their children to our care. This means the number of students and families joining our school is on the rise. We have already surpassed this year's enrollment for next year, and it is still April.

No matter how much we've improved, there are a few families who believe the grass is greener somewhere else and some who don't like the fact that I'm asking the teachers to push the students to the next level. That's fine. My job is not to make everyone happy. My job is to make St. Ann the best school possible. We've made lots of improvements and plan to make even more in the future.

I was once told by a great leader that if I and my actions are universally liked, then I'm not pushing hard enough.

With that being said, my goal is to make St. Ann the best school. Another goal is to be the best principal I can possibly be. I don't show up every day to be average. I don't work hard to just get by. I don't work to bring people on board trying to be mediocre. I do all these things in striving to be the best. And, I'm going to do it through hard work, putting together a great team, and most importantly by being HAPPY! For those who are on board and happy, let's kick this pig, together! In other words, let's get started! Let's get started anew every morning in making St. Ann a better school.

Alumni Spotlight:

Ashlen Cook made the Color Guard team at SBA! SBA is starting a marching band and color guard for the first time starting next school year. Also, the SBA Rock and Soul Band went to Atlanta last weekend for a band trip and performed for the students at Hamilton Middle & High School. In addition, their last concert will be this coming Sunday, April 28th, at Neil's Music Room from 4-6 pm. Cover charge is $5. Ashlen is a vocalist for the band and there are four other St. Ann alums in the band- Jack Conway, Wyatt Packard, Matthew Li, and Andrew Mays.

If you have never been to Neil's, it is a treat. Neil Heins is a great guy and a supporter of Catholic education.

God bless you,
Didier Aur, Principal

Brooks Schollmeyer, Helias Class of 2012

Brooks Schollmeyer is a Helias graduate from the Class of 2012.  His first mission trip was to Memphis as a chaperon.  He hopes to become a Heart's Home missionary and has even traveled to their U.S. headquarters in Brooklyn for a Come and See Weekend.  This blog is about his mission to Memphis.

Brooks Schollmeyer, Class of 2012

Luke 9:23 “If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.”

            That decent anxious feeling was running through me as I sat on the bus headed to Memphis on November 28^th.  Being my first mission trip, as well as being a chaperone, all that I was capable of doing was begging to God to send his wisdom into my thoughts, actions, and words, due to my lack of experience.

            Arriving in Memphis, we ate at an Italian restaurant called Coletta’s.  Ian Thompson who was also a chaperone, sat at my table while we ate.  I was very blessed to have had a conversation with him as he encouraged me in the right direction starting the week off, along with being much help with any advice I needed throughout the trip.

            I came to realize very quickly that his Helias group was selfless towards one another, unloading bags and equipment into the gymnasium, and lending a hand until everyone was situated.

Holy Names Catholic School

When my group and I first arrived at Holy Names Thursday morning, certainly the environment was consisted of heavy poverty.  As we were walking towards the school, Mr. Aur pointed to a couple of houses nearby saying, “That one used to be a crack house, and this one two young boys were shot to death in.”  Keeping this in mind I walked into the school.  Two of my students helped sixth grade math, the other two went to seventh grade English, as I went back and forth between the two.  I must say we didn’t have as many activities to engage/help the students as hoped for, but this didn’t take away the amount of love we received and gave.  They quickly invited us into their discussions and made us feel right at home.  Each one of the students in English class introduced themselves by saying what their hobbies were and what they wanted to be when they grew up.  During their responses, I was hearing their heart cry out.  With hope, they were determined to live a better life than what their parents have chosen and to make them proud.  From wanting to be a doctor, artist, engineer, etc.  They were joyfully thankful to be in school to receive an education, thus they could pursue their dreams.  The teachers were on a mission to give them all they offered.  With infinite love, they were genuine and heart driven to help these kids enjoy school and succeed.  As I walked in for lunch, they all screamed at me to hurry over and sit with them!  They were so excited to be in my presence along with their friends, just giving and receiving love.

Brooks & his team at Holy Names

            Looking up at this big cross in the school with no arms, Mr. Aur tells us about history and the meaning behind it.  “We are the arms of God in this world.”  We are all here to help each other grow with God’s love.

            On Friday, my group and I went to a school named New Hope.  I helped organize school work with Liz Myers.  At first, I thought I wasn’t doing too much help.  She specified to me, “Being with the kids is great because you really sense the good you are doing, but they are grateful for everything you do for them.”  Which made me realize helping in any sort of way is of equal cause.

            The St. Jude Marathon was truly a memorable experience.  Each person was running for their own cause.  In the minds of many, “Let’s punch cancer in the face!”  Many were nowhere near in shape for this journey.  Out of straight willpower, they pushed themselves.  How grateful they were of our action in this event by just handing out water, cheering them on.  This kept me baffled for quite some time as they were my idol.

            This mission trip bears immeasurable fruits that I know I’ll never fully understand.  I have experienced the need of fellowship.  Rich or poor, whichever way life has taken you.  We all long for love by one another and without it, loneliness will take over which will rob us of the true beauty in life.  It is through one another that we see the face of Christ.

            As everyone knows who has been on a mission trip before, it’s a life changing experience.  I do believe, however, it is after your experience that you must take the gifts God has given to you and use it in your everyday life; otherwise you lose the value of it.  My mission simply doesn’t end here.  Jesus invites me to take up my cross daily.  Every day I must die to myself and live for Christ, which is challenging but well worth it.  I encourage others to do the same.  Luke 9:24 “For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life will save it.”

Memphis 2012 Chaperons

            I decided to go on this mission trip because I feel a heavy calling by God to pursue one, called Hearts Home, that Mr. Aur’s son and daughter have chosen to become a part of.  If this is what the Lord has down his path for me, I will be sure to partake on this mission.

            Thanks to the Helias Catholic students, and chaperones.  I would like to give special thanks to Mr. Aur.  Thank you so much for not only letting me come on this trip, but believing in me as a chaperone with no experience.  I can only hope I met your expectations.  I owe you one.

Grace to you, and Peace,

Brooks Schollmeyer

Tyler Seabaugh, Helias Class of 2009

Tyler Seabaugh is a 2009 graduate of Helias Catholic High School.  He is currently at Avila University with plans to attend dental school.  He was on the first ever Helias mission trip which was to Hermosillo, Sonora, Mexico back in 2008.  He went on a total of three Helias mission trips; two to Mexico and one to Springfield.  The this blog is about his mission work in Okolona, Mississippi.

Tyler on the 2009 Mexico Mission Trip

            A little background on the town, Okolona Mississippi use to be one of the most booming towns in Mississippi.  There were around 25 furniture factories and a lot of people.  White people ran the town, and everybody knew it.  The whites would go to school until high school and then, if they could afford it move on to a community or regular four-year college. The blacks of the town were only allowed to go as far as seventh grade.  They would then begin working at the furniture factories.  People often asked why they would not continue further with their education.  The answer, why, is because uneducated individuals made for good cheap labor and educated people ran the town.  Racism was very high in this town and still has some issues with strong racism.  Things have turned around for the better, but very slowly.

            Avila University is a partner with the Sisters of Saint Joseph of Carondelet and those sisters are called CSJ’s.  A CSJ sister is in charge of a program called Excel in Okolona.  This program provides many services such as GED programs and some other learning and exercising opportunities; the program also sponsors an after-school program for the children of the local school system.  This after-school opportunity keeps a lot of these children in school who would not normally continue with their education.  The ages range from first grade to high school aged students.  So the service to this community is huge for not only breaking boundaries between people and reaching out to those people of the town and their children to educate themselves to help them do things from going on to college to getting a full-time job to support their families.

2008 Mexico Mission: Tyler is on the 1st row at the very right

            I have been on this trip three times and the trips have been different each time.  The excel program also owns a resale store to help people who can not afford expensive clothing by receiving donations and selling the items at next to nothing compared to what it could resale for.  This year’s trip involved clean up from a tornado, two years ago, which devastated a neighboring town and some of the habitants of Okolona.  We helped clean up around the local church, repair homes that had been destroyed, and cleared a lot and fixed up the yard of an abandoned house so a near homeless elderly woman could have a place to live.  The home belongs to Orlando Snow.  Mr. Snow has also been fighting cancer for a number of years.  Orlando was actually hit by the tornado twice in the same day.  The first time he was struck he was at his home in the morning and was hit by an F3 tornado.  After that tornado struck, they moved to his mother-in-law’s house for safety for the present time.  Later that day, an F5 came through the area again and he was picked up and thrown under a car.  He is a very giving individual and clearly cares about others more than himself.  Mr. Snow has also been fighting cancer for a number of years.

Starting his dental practice on the 2009 Springfield Mission Trip

            In the afternoons we would tutor the children from the local school system and help them with their homework.  The children in the after-school program are very bright children, but they require a little extra attention to keep focused and work through their problems one by one.  This one on one time helps the children keep focused and our stories of making it through school and having a dream kept a dream alive for them.  This trip is an eye opening experience for everyone who goes on it.  Some people are still overcoming racism that is still present in the town.  It’s shocking to people because they either believe that there is no more racism or they believe that it’s over in the United States.  It is good to have a reality check on things and the meaning of small actions to people mean the most to them.  I would encourage anyone to go on any mission trip that might challenge their social and economical norm to see how others live to understand that everyone lives differently and to have a social consciousness about people’s background or current situations.

Helias Students Participating in the Rotary Exchange Program & Heart's Home

             Two years ago, two Helias students spent one year studying abroad in Ecuador through the Rotary Exchange Program and one student spent the year doing mission work with Heart's Home in Brazil. This current year, three more Helias students are participating in the Rotary Exchange (Brazil, Ecuador, and Spain). Next year, six Helias students will participate in the Rotary Exchange and two will be doing mission work with Heart's Home. The number of Helias students wanting to study or do mission work overseas before going to college is on the rise. I see this as very positive that our students are wanting to see more, be more, learn more, do more, and grow more. I also like the fact that these young people have the courage to step out of their comfort zone in bettering themselves. I would love to see these young people bring what they've learned and experienced back to the Jefferson City area one day.

The following students have been selected to participate in the Rotary Exchange Program:

Emily Churchill- Brazil: I have always loved to travel to see new things and meet new people.  As I got older, my love for adventure grew not only broader but deeper.  I discovered that what I really want to do at this point in my life is experience something most people don't get the chance to experience.  I want to do my part to break down borders between people in different cultures by traveling across the world and being open to what is thrown at me.  I have always been drawn towards service work, such as the mission trips at Helias, but I would like to take that further and I believe that my participation as a Rotary Youth Exchange Student next year in Brazil could open doors for me to really make a difference in the future.  The teachers and administration at Helias are very supportive of students who express interest in a gap year and I am so thankful that their support helped me apply and eventally get accepted to Rotary.  Helias focuses a lot of energy to get students to serve others through service hours and mission trips.  These opportunities have allowed me to see that anything helps and that when you help someone, the fact that you made one person's life a little better even just for a moment is more than enough reward.  I hope to break down some borders all next year and even more after I return.

Brooke Micke- Peru: I decided to participate in the Rotary Exchange because I wanted to become fluent in Spanish. I plan on entering the medical field and participating in medical missions in South America. I went on a mission trip my sophomore year and fell in love with service. Helias has helped me realize that my purpose in life is to help those who cannot help themselves.

Erin Mills- Ecuador:  Next year, I will spend ten months in Ecuador.  I am extremely excited to able to partake in this amazing opportunity through Rotary Youth Exchange Program.  This program allows students to attend high school in a foreign country, experiencing a new culture, host family, and language.  I will be living in the city of Cuenca which is in the mountains.  I decided to make this exchange after hosting a Swiss exchange student last year.  The experience was so positive and I gained a new friend as sister.  I cannot wait to have an experience of my own abroad, broadening my horizons on a different continent.

Nick Vellios- Belgium:  Ever since I was young, I have wanted to take an exchange trip of some sort. I have always loved to travel, and to learn about other cultures and languages. Mrs. Zeitz and Jessica Hilgedick were the ones who first introduced to me the idea of traveling with the Rotary Club. Jessica, advised by Mrs. Zeitz, took a trip to Switzerland during my sophomore year. Mrs. Zeitz had us write emails to her as part of class, and I quickly became fascinated by, and slightly envious of the experiences she was having. I have always wanted to be fluent in a foriegn language, and when Jessica came back and talked to our class, her French speaking skills had improved at least 1000%. It was at that time that I realized that rotary was the program that I wanted to do my exchange trip with. Also, that year, I started in Mrs. Arthur's spanish class. A very multicultural and diverse program, Mrs. Arthur actively promoted foriegn travel, exchange trips, and above all the rotary exchange program, which she helps coordinate. She eulogized its cheapness, the wonderful experiences people had had, and the new language fluency that they gained during their foreign sojurn. These two Helias teachers are above all what made me decide to do my exchange with the rotary program. Mrs. Zeitz's excellent French program, with all of its speech practice and vocabulary, together with Mrs. Arthur's brilliant grammar teaching method (which helped me with French grammar, as well as Spanish) has made me very confident that I will have few communication problems during my time in Wallonia, Belgium.

Eric Weiler- Spain:  Next school year, I will be a foreign exchange student to the country of Spain.  I do not know where I will be staying in Spain nor with whom.  I am sure that I will live in a beautiful place and live with a wonderful host family.  While on exchange, I hope to visit Barcelona and Mardrid as well as the rest of Europe.  I would especially like to visit Germany and France.  People often ask me why I want to do this.  My response is always- why not?  I get to live in Europe for an entire year!  I will be experiencing a new culture, learning a new language, and meeting friends from all over the world, all while living in one of the most beautiful and culturally rich countries on earth.  Who wouldn't take advantage of an opportunity like that?

Justin White- Colombia:  Next year I will be a Rotary Youth Exchange student in Colombia, South America. People often ask me why I want to be an exchange student.  I am tired of doing the same thing over and over, and just following the normal. I realized last year that I have a desire to do something bigger than myself inside me. Not necessarily to change the world, but to change myself. Right now I live in this sheltered world where everything I could want has been given to me, but I want that to change. I want to be put into a situation that is completely new to me, and to take full control of it to see how it changes me and how I will grow as a person. This, combined with the fact that the world and other cultures has always fascinated me, has led me to choose to take the leap and become an exchange student.  Besides Helias introducing me to Rotary and the entire exchange option via Mrs. Arthur, Helias has helped influence my decision because of the mission trips. The mission trips, although short, have showed me that is is different outside of the world of Jeff City, and has made me want to see it. While I am not serving people in my year abroad, I feel the mission trips are a little taste of what I will experience while abroad.

Two Helias seniors will spend next year serving as missionaries with Heart's Home. Heart’s Home is an international Catholic non-profit orga­ni­za­tion that works to promote  a culture of com­pas­sion around providing intimate, one-on-one support to individuals in some of the most deprived areas of the world.  

Emily Allen- Argentina: I joined Heart's Home because sympathy is no substitute for action. I joined because I have seen so much suffering and it has shattered my heart, and I know pity gets you nowhere and means nothing. I cannot sit here in my warm home with my full stomach and loving family knowing such intense destitution and despair exists. Now that I have heard the agonized cries of the most precious people in the world coming from the darkness, what choice do I have but to go to them? Heart's Home gives me the opportunity to serve these beautiful people in the purest and simplest of ways, by suffering with them and being a presence with Mary at the foot of the Cross. And, I know I am just one person, but that's all anybody ever is, and I know that through me, Jesus can set the world on fire. Helias has played a huge role in shaping who I am today. It was through Helias that I discovered missions and I am thankful for that every day. I can't say what I would be doing now if I had not attended this school, but I know I wouldn't be with Heart's Home. Helias has given me the solid base I need to do God's work in the world.

Celina Aur- Brazil:  Helias has influenced me greatly in choosing to spend my next year devoted to service. Or better said, my dad has influenced me greatly. Mission trips have been my greatest inspiration for fulfilling my call to service, and without my dad, I wouldn’t have the experiences with service and missions that I do. No one would. Also, Helias has provided me, as well as the other students, with a multitude of service opportunities. These opportunities have created a motivation in me to do something greater than myself. That is where I was led to doing mission work. I am very fortunate to have been surrounded by such a spiritually rooted community at Helias. I am also very thankful in knowing that I will have the support of my community during my mission through faith and prayers.

Please keep these young people in your daily prayers.  I'm very proud that they are taking a leap of faith, willing to dream big, and have the courage to follow their dream.

Blessed Theresa of Jesus Gerhardinger...Pray for us!

St. John Baptist de La Salle...Pray for us!

Live Jesus in our hearts...Forever!

Another 2nd Generation Mission Leader Speaks

This blog was written by Stefan Balcer.  Stefan graduated from Helias in 2011 and is a veteran mission tripper.  He was also one of the members of the Helias football team who made it to the Dome twice.  Stefan has also been active with Life Teen.  At the beginning of his senior year, he and Alex Eickhoff were the leaders of the Frosh Camp.  Stefan is a sophomore at Mississippi State University where he is studying to become an architect.

Stefan is on the far right.  This is on the 2011 Memphis Mission where he served as a chaperon.

Missions have become a big part of life. I went on my first mission trip in December of my junior year. I had spent the prior summer with the group that had gone on the Springfield, IL mission trip. I saw how close this group had become over the trip, no matter if they were a freshman or a senior. I can still remember standing in Mr. Aur’s kitchen and telling him that I WAS GOING on the next mission trip, no matter what. I signed up for the Memphis mission trip, and was selected to go. I was nervous going on the trip, because I didn’t really know what to expect and there weren’t many of my friends going. I now realize that it doesn’t matter who you’re with because you are all there for the same reason, to serve. The motto for this trip was “Do something bigger than yourself”. I thought that I had accomplished this by just going on the trip, but I was wrong. Taking this statement to the fullest was being completely selfless and to do everything for others that you could. This trip was the beginning of my service journey. After the completion of trip I was instantly hooked.

Stefan working on a Habitat Home in Springfield, IL

I then went on to participate in the St. Louis trip that coming January. That trip will always be one of my favorites. Working in the sheltered workshops on long side the workers is a true reality check. We always complain how bad our life is or what we might be going through, and never take the time to “stop and smell the roses”. These people are full of love and joy that I have never seen in anyone else in my life. It was amazing to me how these people could be so open and so loving to strangers and not think anything of it. They taught me that no matter your situation, you should take the time and enjoy life. 

Group from Helias & O'Hara who helped rebuild the church in the background.

The next trip was Mexico, which I never would have gone if Jonathan Aur would have not encouraged me to do so. And I’m so glad he was so persistent in getting me to go. Mexico is by far my most memorable mission trip, and most humbling. It was not until I went to Mexico and served in the slums of Hermosillo, or the surrounding villages that I understood what poverty really was. These people had next to nothing and would give anything they could to you; to make sure you were comfortable. I also learned a lot about true faith on this trip. Even though these people lived in such horrible conditions they had a faith stronger than anything I could imagine. In a letter that a friend wrote to me on the trip she said, “It isn’t all about your “religion” but more about your “relationship” with God”. This really hit me and still sticks with me to this day.

Stefan on the 2010 Mexico Mission

In June, I participated on the Springfield mission trip. It was the true definition of “serving others”. Building a home for someone is something I think everyone should help do. Helping out someone in your community is truly giving of yourself. The gratification you get from seeing someone so thankful for you helping to provide them with a home might be one of the greatest experiences ever. I then went on to serve on the St. Louis and Springfield mission trips my senior year. I went off to college in Mississippi and volunteered with the Oktibbeha County Habitat for Humanity to help build a house. This experience was more of a “real life mission” for me because it was me going out on my own to help others.

Stefan working at WORTH Industries in St. Louis

I then chaperoned the Memphis mission trip. This trip was very special to me because it was where I had begun my mission journey. It all became very clear to me that these missions have a special place in my heart, since I was returning as an alumnus to help. My mission experience came full circle in Memphis. I was able to stand back and look at the high school kids and think how things have changed. It made me wish that they knew how much these missions not only effected who we helped, but also changed us as well. It made me proud to see these kids give up their time to help others. I am looking forward to returning to Springfield in June, this time as a chaperon. I hope to come out with the same thoughts as I did from Memphis. I don’t think I have to worry about that too much though. Helias is full of special kids who are willing to help, and the mission trips really help to show that. In short, the mission trips have changed my life, for the better. I really want to thank Mr. Aur for the endless hours he spends to make sure these trips happen. His dedication is inspirational. Go out and “Do something bigger than yourself”!

Final Letter from Heart's Home Mission

Jonathan’s Letter # 4 - May 2011

Dear Family and Friends,

As month nine is coming to an end, we are starting to prepare for my return to the United States. Things have been going hard here and I don’t see it letting up any time soon. As I said in my last letter, Mayra and Yesse finished their missions and went home. There are now four of us here. I currently live with three Argentinians named Guilhermina, Nicolas, and Nany. It has been a big transition period since their departures but things are slowly getting back to normal.

A Different Kind of Mission

On March 18^th, I went with Fr. Arnaud and the new head of Heart’s Home, Fr. Guilherme, to Rio de Janeiro for ten days to work. It was an incredible experience. We worked like crazy with our talks on the radio, lectures, and testimonies in front of large groups, etc. The purpose of our time in Rio was to spread the word about Heart’s Home and that we did. It was an honor to get chosen to represent Heart’s Home in such a way.

Jonathan, Gabby & Kaka

Some More Friends

Ninha - I know I already told you all about Ninha but I just wanted to let you all know that João Guilherme is due June 10. Also, Gabby now can say my name.

W. - When I arrived last July, W. was at our house almost every day. His relationship with our house was as strong, if not stronger than any. He was also a great friend of mine. W. was a great person with only one defect. He was the head drug trafficker of the area. W. didn’t let his work life and his personal life get mixed up too much until one day he killed a co-worker of his. After that day, W.’s life turned upside down. Things just went from bad to worse. We did everything we could to try and get him to leave the drugs and get out the city. A lot of time passed without hearing from W. until one day I received a phone call. It was W.. He told me that he had left the drug industry completely and was living in a city a few hours outside of Simões Filho. It was a miracle. W. was able to do the impossible. I was very happy about what he had done until a few weeks ago I had an encounter with W. again but it was different than our normal encounters. He was runni ng away from the police after robbing a school and was trying to break into our house. It was a very difficult thing that happened, not because he was trying to rob us, but because the life he has reentered will only end in death.

L. - L. is our 17-year-old next door neighbor. She is someone to be looked at as an inspiration to all of us. Lau has 4 sisters who all got pregnant when they were sixteen or younger. She lives in a two room house with her mother. She is surrounded by a world of sex, drugs, and alcohol. But, thankfully, L. has spent every afternoon at our house since the day it opened. She knows our daily prayers better than we do. She goes to church at least 4 times a week. And on top of all this, L. has dreams. This may sound silly to many of us Americans who live in a country filled with dreams but remember, this neighborhood doesn’t exactly produce dreams. L. wants to be a doctor. She says she doesn’t want a boyfriend because that only will distract her. This girl came from nothing but she wants everything. We have already made a promise within our house that we will do anything it takes to make her dreams come true. We have already taken her to the Medical University in Sa lvador and that is just the start of it. L. is truly an example of why we continue when things get tough.

Donha N. - Donha N. is another inspiring woman in our lives. She calls us her white children and she treats us like it, too. Donha N. is a proud mother of nine, is seventy-eight, and lives with her daughter and three sisters. At the age of seventy-eight, Donha N. has still not taken a single day in her life for just her. She passes most of her time taking care of her sisters and daughter. M. , her daughter, has the mental capacity of a toddler due to drugs. B., her sister, has breast cancer. M., her other sister, suffers from a rare skin disease that slowly eats away at her skin. D. N. is never down in the dumps, sad, or without hope. Every time she tells us about something wrong in her life she ends the story with a big smile and the words, “It’s okay because I am in God’s hands and if I stay there, I’ll be good.”

Donha M. - Eighteen years ago, D. M. took in the daughter of a friend who didn’t have the means to take care of her. A few years ago, the daughter became very involved in drugs and prostitution. She ended up getting pregnant. Her son, D., is one of the cutest babies I have ever seen. D. stayed with D. M. every day, all day. The daughter managed to get out of the drugs and prostitution but went straight to the police to clear her name. When her “ex co-workers” found out, they kidnapped, raped, and killed her. Since D. M. is not D.’s real grandmother, she lost custody. She has now lost her daughter and grandson.

Work On Top of Work

A few months ago, four young boys playing soccer at the bottom of the favela were killed by stray bullets. We immediately decided we needed to do something. We now have a project in progress to build a small soccer field in our back yard. This area will also be used for Mass, Permanences, Gatherings, etc. It is a project that will also ensure the safety of our house. It has been a great experience for me to have started this project and carried it to the point I have for the next head of the household and community to continue. It has also worn me out. Our days don’t leave much time for ourselves but the project is all in order. We have also asked for local help on this project. Just this morning I met with the mayor and a city council member to see about receiving help from the city. This is work I never imagined I would be doing throughout my mission but it is more rewarding than I ever could have imagined.

Adrian, Nany, myself, Guillermina

The Last Bit

I received my ticket for my flight back home already. I closed my eyes and just like that, almost ten months have gone by like nothing. My “despedida” (farewell) process has already started. It is my preparation to go back home. It normally takes about a month to say goodbye to everyone and invite them to my farewell mass. It is also a big preparation for the people of the neighborhood as well. It is never easy for any of us to say good bye... especially when we don’t know when the next time will be that we see that person. I am sure many tears will be shed but also many memories made. I will let you all know how it turns out when I have my feet back on American soil. It looks like I will be arriving at the Columbia Airport at 3:00 pm on June 15. Until then!

In Him,
Jonathan Aur

Easter From Friends

This is a letter my son, Jonathan, wrote while on mission with Heart's Home in Salvador, Bahia, Brazil.  Jonathan spent a year doing mission work.

Dear Jefferson City Friends,

       This is a picture of the kids in Brazil with their Easter presents. On this day, every child in our neighborhood was at our house playing games and was surprised with a present. The presents might have been the best presents that the children had ever received in their entire lives. The presents consisted of coloring books, crayons, and plastic Easter eggs filled with candy. It was all made possible by Helias Catholic High School, St. Peter's Catholic School, and the Balcer Family. The support that Heart's Home received from my friends and family back home was more than ever repayable. Even now, while writing this thank you letter, I get teary eyed. The loving Jefferson City community made an impact on those children's lives that they will never forget. Those children now have the option to stay inside or at the Heart's Home and color their books or draw with their crayons instead of running around on the streets. Keeping those children off of the streets will keep them away from drugs, sex, alcohol, prostitution, and even death. In this picture, you will be able to see smiles unlike any smiles you will encounter in our day-to-day lives. They are smiles caused by such an incomprehensible simplicity that we can't help but take a moment to thank God. Those are the smiles that got me out of bed every day at all hours and all situations. I want to thank everyone for their support. Heart's Home mission cannot be made possible without the love and support from back home. Thanks again and God bless.

Love,
Jonathan Aur

P.S. Not all of the children that were there that day are in the picture.

P.P.S. The boy on my left (Enrique) asked if we could take this picture "to thank the people who love us and don't even know us."