Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Jessica Duncan and the 2012 Memphis Misson Trip


 Jessica Duncan, Helias Catholic High School, Class of 2013
Memphis was my first mission trip.  I was incredibly nervous. I didn't know what to expect.  Mr. Aur had told us we would be working with children at some of the schools.  He also mentioned that what we would see and experience would be unlike anything we've ever been through before.  He was right.
Driving to the schools in the morning, we passed by abandoned houses, homeless wanderers, and children walking to school.  We were far from the wealthy side of Memphis.  As the drive got longer and longer, I wondered what I would see inside the schools, if this was the community the children were coming from.  I needn't have worried.
Barbecue Dinner at CBHS
The first thing I saw at St. Augustine was a smile; a huge, bright smile.  The principal welcomed us into the school, her arms open wide and her smile even wider.  And as I entered the classroom, I saw her smile reflected in the smiles of the students.  They were so glad just to have us there. They willingly offered to share their playtime and activities, as well as an abundance of love. I hadn't realized how much these children, who came from a community that lacked many amenities we take for granted, had to offer.  I also didn't realize how much I myself, a girl from a nice family, a good school, and enough comforts to spare, needed.  I needed their reminder of the simple joy in living, in having a godly life, and sharing everything I had with the world.
Aid Station @ mile 13 of Marathon
The children's lesson was echoed in the St. Jude Marathon.  Many runners took the time and breath to thank us for volunteering, for supporting them.  Even more humbling were the runners who were true heroes fighting for their cause: a father propelling his son in a wheelchair; a man running as a guide for a visually impaired man; a man in a wheelchair propelling himself forward with only the strength of his arms.  These heroes proclaimed their message to work for a higher cause than one's self.

While these major highlights are of a more serious nature, Memphis was extremely fun. From being woken up to rather obnoxious Christmas music to Beale Street, it was a truly memorable experience.  I relished the opportunity to grow stronger in my faith, to grow closer to the classmates I had previously not known, and to see the innocence and joy in the eyes of God's children.  Memphis opened my eyes to all this, and the potential I had not realized I had within myself: the potential to give love and support to those who need it; really, the potential of God.
Aid Station 13: Beale Street

Molly Haslag and the 2012 Memphis Mission Trip


Molly Haslag, Helias Catholic High School, Class of 2013
On the way home from the Memphis mission trip this past Sunday, several of my classmates and I chose to go to Popeye’s for lunch. While there, a few workers noticed our St. Jude Marathon shirts and asked if that’s why we had been in Memphis. As we told them we were on the way home from a mission trip, we received some strange looks. After explaining that mission trips involve us traveling to areas in need to help out the people who live there, I realized that mission trips serve a much greater purpose than just helping out. It’s difficult to understand if you’ve never participated in one, but now after completing my second trip, I feel as if I have learned their true purpose.
Tutoring at St. Patrick
            While reaching out to those in need doesn’t completely sum up a mission trip, it does play a large role. The first two days in Memphis, my classmates and I worked at several different Catholic grade schools located in some of the poorer areas of the city. I was assigned to the kindergarten class at St. Patrick’s School. The students there were the most well-behaved five year olds I have ever met and were so excited to have us visit. At first, I didn’t see how counting to twenty and reading stories to the class helped anyone. It hit me on the second day when I was working specifically with Jordan Cooper to help him memorize which letter was which. It was when he got this huge smile and for the first time correctly identified the letter “I.” That was the moment I knew I had really impacted a child’s life in some small way. I was amazed at how those kids could love me so unconditionally after just two days. I will always remember how grateful they were to be able to attend school, to have food to eat, and to have someone there to love them back. I was truly humbled and so grateful myself for all the wonderful things I have in life.
Working Aid Station @ mile 25 of the marathon
            Another way we reached out was at the St. Jude Marathon on Saturday. This was definitely my favorite part of the entire trip and a day I will never forget. Handing out water cups from eight in the morning until past three in the afternoon didn’t sound too great at first, but as soon as I got to mile marker twenty-five, I could actually see why we were there. We were standing only a few blocks away from the actual hospital and it struck me that we were there for every kid inside so that hopefully one day they can be cancer free. By the time the runners got to where I was, they were dead tired. We cheered them on as we gave them water and encouraged them to keep going. I was astonished when so many of them stopped to personally thank us and tell us how much our being there meant to them. Me? I was only handing out water and these people are running 26.2 miles! The people I met that day are the true heroes and I was honored to just be a part of the cause. The children of St. Jude will forever be in my prayers and I hope one day to go back to the marathon and see them running and saying that they survived.
            Along with helping others, you strengthen your relationships with others on mission trips. I had never met some of the people I went to Memphis with. I can now say that I have so many new friends and have reconnected with some old ones. We all share a special bond of working together to achieve what we set out to do. You also strengthen your relationship with God. On mission trips, students hold prayer services every night and we pray together throughout the day. Being away from all the stress and schedules of everyday life allows you to really connect with God and think about how you can continue to become a better person. During mission trips you find God in all that you do. I saw Him in every kid in my kindergarten class, in every runner and supporter at the marathon, and in every one of my peers working along beside me. Now that I am home, I still feel that strong bond with Him and will work to grow closer to Him still.
Aid Station @ mile 6 of the marathon
            Most importantly, mission trips can change your life when you open yourself up to the opportunity. Before going on my first mission trip to Joplin last year, I wasn’t the best person I could be. I realized after how self absorbed I was and how I wasn’t putting God first in my life. After seeing the people whose homes were destroyed by the tornado, I saw how lucky I am. They didn’t care about their possessions or their money. These individuals were so happy just to be alive and to have their families with them. Their faith in God was so strong and they encouraged me to put my trust in Him as well. In Memphis, I saw the same kind of individuals: people with almost nothing but still such happiness and hope for the future because they believe God watching over them. After seeing all this, I now know God is with me. He will give me strength when I face obstacles and will never leave me. I do believe I am a better person now than I was then and I still look for ways to improve myself.
Bus Ride to Memphis
            Even though I am a senior this year and won’t have the chance to go on anymore Helias mission trips, I do wish to continue doing mission work in my future. Wherever my life leads me, the things I have learned on these trips will forever be in my heart and will give me strength for the road ahead. I thank Mr. Aur and Helias for giving me these first opportunities and opening my eyes to all that I can do for others. God bless all mission trippers and their chaperones and live Jesus in our hearts forever. Amen!

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Blogs By My Students





My blog is a very different blog.  Most of the blogs are actually written by my students and my children.  Both  my children, Jonathan and Celina, were my students during their high school years.  What they have to say is probably more interesting than what I have to say.  I believe a blog written by me would not have the same effect a blog written by students would have.  So, I will continue to ask my students to blog and to share their blog.


In my work, I try to lead my students to a higher level of awareness be it spiritual or academic.  I try to help them find out a little more about themselves and maybe who God wants them to be.  All of us have a lot more to offer than we actually do offer.  I try to help them realize how much they have to offer the world and those in need.  Sometimes those needs are big though we all know that most of the time those needs are so small that most people don't even notice.  Mother Teresa once said, "We can not all do big things but small things with great love." Sometimes, all a person needs is a smile, a hello, and a bit of kindness and compassion.

I ask my students to write blogs so they can see for themselves the good they are doing for others.  Also, by writing these blogs, they help themselves realize how those they help are helping them.  It is a vicious beautiful cycle; I help you and you help me.  I heard this in a song today (wish I could remember the song title), "You have to give in order to receive." How true!  We all know this, but we tend to forget which means we need constant reminders about giving.

My students are giving more and more all the time and are coming to the realization that giving is a good thing helping both the giver and receiver.  Many of them are looking for opportunities to serve; the more they serve the better they become.  What I mean by better is they become better people.  They become more compassionate. They have more empathy.  They are willing to sacrifice, take a little less for themselves so others can have more.

They are bright, intelligent, caring, giving, loving, service-minded young people.  So, instead of reading what I have to say, let's see what they have to say.  Hope you enjoy.

God bless you!

Monday, December 3, 2012

Reece West and the 2012 Memphis Mission Trip

Reece West '13
Was I nervous?  Curious?  What was this trip going to open my eyes to?  These are all questions I was pondering over while on the dreary bus ride to inner city Memphis, TN.  I would agree in the fact of excitement being greater than anxiety.  I was ready to experience the world from a different perspective.

When we arrived, we quickly ate and went to bed; yet another sanctum for me to compile emotions about what would happen tomorrow.  I woke up the next morning to the song "I want a hippopotamus for Christmas".... Shoot me... After breakfast the other students as well as teachers/volunteers went off to the other schools in the bus.  I was lucky enough to be selected as a member of the 5th grade class at De La Salle, which is where we stayed.  As soon as the children started showing up I immediately became aware of how this trip was going to affect me.  Complete strangers, these kids...strangers coming up to other strangers, myself/classmates , and hugging us and asking the curious questions that germinate within the grade school mind.  It was almost heartbreaking- in an inspiring way.
Reece at De La Salle @ Blessed Sacrament

After conversing in the gym where the kids first went, I met my teacher, Mr. DB. He introduced me to the class as soon as everyone got situated.  Right off the bat Jibril, Paulo, Ahmed, and Maximino (Max for short) caught my attention.. They could dance, have an educated conversation, and make the class more enjoyable by simply being themselves; their happy selves.  They were funny!  Jibril making funny noises in the back while Paulo and Ahmed were wrestling to answer a math question correctly.  All four students were smart, entertaining, and fun to be around.

Reece tutoring a math student
Besides the work in class, each child gained a special place within me.  They all had special qualities that are worth of recognition.  Max and Ahmed could dance like to tomorrow.  Jibril and Paulo were as smart as I when it came to algebra.  Reisha could tell you what to watch out for in Memphis while carrying the biggest smile on her face.  Mr. DB made the class fun by being easy going; low stress keeps a happy class.... apparently.  Sabrina was an angel, never did anything wrong?? :)  I could go on and on but let's get to the point.

Mission trips are life changing. I can 100% guarantee that you WILL NOT come out the same person that you went in.  Something about going into a Jubilee/Miguel School and seeing things that they deal with and go through.  You learn to relate to them, but not anything  close to the full story.  Coming from a more financially stable family, I saw things that I didn't know went on in kids' lives like that.  Some so destructive, some so positive.  The staff and faculty made it their every day goal to allow these kids at De La Salle to enjoy something about school.  Every single day these kids could show up to school and know that they would be appreciated, that they would be loved in some way, shape, or form.

As a student and as a (recent) mission tripper... I am proud to say that I helped those kids and I gave them someone to look up to; but more importantly I am proud to say that I can look up to them.  It's truly amazing and inspiring.

-Reece West, Helias Class of 2013 and Memphis Mission Tripper
2012 Memphis Mission Trip @ St. Augustine with Fr. Tony Clark